Saturday, December 26, 2015

Xmas Flix

I have spent the past two weeks holed up at home.  When you live in a resort town whose principal industry is catering to well-heeled skiers and snowboarders, Christmas is the season for some of us to hunker down.

It hasn’t helped that it has snowed pretty steadily; no sooner would one storm pass through then another followed.  Out of curiosity I’ve been monitoring road conditions on the state highway department’s website.  (I say “out of curiosity” because ordinarily I do so for my own safety since I drive over mountain passes to get to work.)  Despite the heavy snow and whiteout conditions, the flatlanders were undaunted.  Over the past few days the highway patrol has been metering traffic coming up from the foothills due to congestion.

I have ventured out exactly once since the college winter hiatus began.  I was out of liquor.  True to form the supermarket was packed with families in bulky ski outfits.  After waiting fifteen minutes in the checkout line, I was finally able to set my items down on the conveyer.  The lady in front of me made note of my purchases—a liter of bourbon, a liter of scotch, and two bottles of a sleep aid.  Smiling, she gave me a knowing look and said, “Family, huh?”

“Yeah, family.”

Actually, no.  In fact I’ve been dodging voicemails all week from my relatives, whom I make a point of keeping at arm’s length.  If they were your relatives you would, too.

Needless to say, I’m not much for Christmas.  I am not a guy who decks the halls.  You won’t find a tree or a single holiday decoration in my house.  I despise the crass commercialism of the season.  My only concession this year was to send checks to my two sons.  Let ‘em do their own shopping.

There is one exception to my antipathy.  There are certain films which are must-see viewing for me this time of year.  My absolute favorite is Scrooge, the adaptation of A Christmas Carol starring Alastair Sim.  Somehow I missed that one this year.  Not to worry, there are two more titles which hold a similarly warm place in my heart.

The first is the venerable It’s a Wonderful Life.  It’s kind of strange that I would have an affinity for this kind of movie.  Fantasy stories don’t really appeal to me.  The dialogue is unbelievably corny, even for a Frank Capra film.  And even as a kid I found the idea of angels, let alone guardian angels, absurd.   

No matter, I was sure to catch NBC’s customary Christmas Eve airing.  (It’s a Wonderful Life is in the public domain which means it’s freely available online.  But somehow it just feels right to watch it on TV every December 24th.)  As I watched, I tried to figure out just what it was I liked about the movie.  I still don’t have one definitive answer but I think I can pin down a few things.

Capra excelled at encapsulating classic Americana.  Bedford Falls was nothing like the small town I grew up in.  The neighbors were much friendlier and considerate than mine.  People in the movie behaved as if they lived in a community and looked out for each other.  And what small town boy wouldn’t have wanted to marry a girl like Mary Hatch?  (Or Donna Reed, for that matter?)  Notwithstanding the idyllic nature of the town, however, I could certainly identify with protagonist George Bailey and his yearning to escape and see the world.

Perhaps the most compelling aspect of It’s a Wonderful Life is the David and Goliath story of George and the Bailey family’s tiny building and loan consistently thwarting the designs of wealthy banker Mr. Henry Potter.  George was the epitome of the stammering, sincere Everyman character James Stewart perfected.  Likewise, Potter was typical of the crabby old men Lionel Barrymore played toward the end of his career.  (The wheelchair Potter occupied was a necessity for Barrymore, who suffered from crippling arthritis.) 

The symbolism of the contest of wills between the two men is subversive in the contemporary cultural context.  Potter is just the kind of individual held up as an exemplar for today’s economic elites.  A “job creator” who treats his employees as disposable vassals, Potter is devoid of sentimentality.  His resort to common theft to bring down his rival would nowadays be seen as a minor peccadillo.  On the other hand, George would be held up as a poor businessman because he puts people ahead of profit.  To portray Potter as the bad guy sets American cultural values—our actual values, not the ones we purport to hold—on their ear.

Stripped of the spiritual mumbo-jumbo and its over-idealized take on small town America, It’s a Wonderful Life is an anachronism with the right message for our age.  That’s why I like it so much.

My second must-see classic is a movie I’m actually old enough to have seen in a theater during its first run.  I was dragged unwillingly to see A Christmas Story as a high schooler during a custodial visitation weekend with my father and stepmother.  I was expecting a stinker, given my dad’s taste in cinema.  (He particularly loved Burt Reynolds' movies from the ‘70s and ‘80s, each of which was essentially a protracted car chase scene.)  Any movie we saw also had to have a plot and character development simple enough for my stepmother to follow.  (After seeing Sophie’s Choice, she complained of not understanding what it was about.  I don’t know why dad married her, but it certainly wasn’t for her smarts.)

Having set my expectations low, I ended up being bowled over by A Christmas Story.  It definitely helped that it was adapted from several of Jean Shepherd’s short stories about his Indiana childhood.  I’d just discovered Shep, having been recommended to me by my English teacher, and I was already familiar with the adaptations of the Ralph Parker stories aired on PBS’s American Playhouse back when the network still offered a respectable volume of quality programming.  (Note: Endless rebroadcasts of Downton Abbey are not an acceptable substitute.)

More time would pass before I learned of Shepherd’s career as a proto-hipster with a late night radio show in 1950s New York City.  Jean Shepherd’s Night People was a freeform program which garnered a cult following among college students.  Shep would speak to his listeners as if they were discerning cultural coconspirators against what he called “creeping Meatballism;” that is, the pervasiveness of the prosaic tastes of the square “day people.”  

Shepherd’s audience was a loyal one.  John Cassavetes’ first feature, Shadows (1959), was financed in part by contributions from the “Night People”—an early example of crowdfunding.  Shepherd also liked to tweak his audience’s noses now and then.  After discussing a racy, albeit nonexistent novel titled I, Libertine, on his show there were so many inquiries about where the book could be bought that Shepherd upped the ante by hastily writing an actual novel under the nom de plume Frederick R. Ewing.  Shep’s photo, captioned as author Ewing, adorned the dustjacket.

It is most unlikely that a program like Night People would be commercially viable today.  Even Shepherd made the migration to public broadcasting in the 1970s.  However, much of the entertainment content on public radio, such as This American Life, The Radio Reader, or The Moth Radio Hour, tend to speak to the interests and concerns of liberal suburbanites.  It’s all good programming, but it doesn’t take many chances.  Meatballism triumphant. 

But, back to A Christmas Story.  Shep is at his best here, playing it straight.  Directed by Bob Clark, whose best known other movie was Porky’s, A Christmas Story is a paean to childhood wonder and anticipation.  Set circa 1940 in northern Indiana, nine year old Ralphie Parker (Peter Billingsley) lives with his father, The Old Man (Darren McGavin), his mom (Melinda Dillon), and his whiny younger brother Randy (Ian Petrella).  The voiceover narration is provided by Ralphie as an Adult (Shep Himself).

The plot is episodic.  The A-plot chronicles Ralphie’s dogged quest to receive a Red Ryder BB gun as a present.  At every turn, Ralphie is discouraged with the warning, “You’ll shoot your eye out!” by everyone from Mom to his teacher to the department store Santa.  But family comedies must have happy endings, and we learn at the end that The Old Man came through for Ralphie with a surprise extra gift Christmas morning.

A Christmas Story works because it’s relatable, showcasing Shepherd’s talent for wringing humor from the most ordinary childhood and family experiences.  (Paradoxically, Shep wasn’t much of a family man.  He was married four times that we know of, and he never bothered with his children again after he left them and their mother.)  Everything from Ralphie’s friendship with Flick and Schwartz (recurring characters in the Ralph stories) to dealing with bullies Scut Farkus and Grover Dill to the discovery your favorite programs are just vehicles to sell stuff are all familiar notwithstanding the retro setting of the film.

The B-plots are gems in themselves.  The Old Man wins a “major award” for solving crossword puzzles, which turns out to be a lamp in the shape of a woman’s leg clad in a fishnet stocking with a lampshade as a skirt.  Mom disapproves and the major award is shattered when it “accidentally” falls to the floor.  Ralphie sends off for a Little Orphan Annie decoder ring which turns out to decode nothing but radio ads for Ovaltine.  Ralphie rats out his pal Schwartz when he utters the F-word after a mishap helping The Old Man change a flat tire.  Christmas dinner is ruined when the neighboring Bumpus hounds enter the Parker kitchen and tear apart the unattended turkey.

I don’t think I really expected A Christmas Story to become a holiday perennial, but it’s easy to understand why it’s stood the test of time.  It’s certainly the best known of Jean Shepherd’s works among the general public.   And it’s a damned shame his other writings and broadcast work have kind of fallen into obscurity since Shep died in 1999.  But then, Shepherd never held himself out as an artist for the masses.  The definition of hipness is fluid and ever changing.  So there is the probability that Shepherd’s humor doesn’t translate well anymore.

I have my fingers crossed for a revival notwithstanding.  And in the meantime, we’ll always have A Christmas Story.  Particularly when TBS airs it repeatedly every Christmas Day.



© 2015 The Unassuming Scholar  

Sunday, December 20, 2015

Here...then Gone...then Back Again (Or, The Neverending Saga of The Miz)

Well, that was…brief. 

Just weeks after I hailed the latest successor to the World’s Greatest Blog, the Academic Mizery Machine, it's gone dark.  By “dark,” I don’t mean that the site is no longer active.  I mean that the latest Miz has been taken down from Blogger altogether.  Dark.  Pfffft.  Gone. 

However, there’s no need for despair.  After some drama involving the last site's moderator and a troll or two, yet another doughty colleague has undertaken to resume the Misery at the old address.

Enjoy!



Thursday, December 17, 2015

Midyear Postmortem

It’s over.  Final grades are in.  Fall semester is complete. 

All told, it was one of my better semesters of late.  (I’ve probably jinxed myself by writing this; now some disgruntled student will crawl from the woodwork to jam me up.)   All but one of my five sections had their fair share of engaged learners.  I’m guessing this is because most of them met in the morning or early afternoon, though my one evening section was okay too. The outlier was my Monday-Wednesday midafternoon section, which had comparatively low enrollment and contained the typical listless lot of “traditional” community college students.

A couple of my classes were pleasant surprises.  When I discovered both contained a large percentage of early-college program high school kids I felt a sense of trepidation if not dread.  My fears were misplaced, though the character of each section differed.  The first was kind of rambunctious since most of them sat together.  Nevertheless, they managed to endear themselves to me as the weeks passed despite my normal curmudgeonly dislike of teenagers.  It was kind of like the college gave me a box of puppies for the semester. The youngsters in the second section were somewhat more restrained but were pleasant company for the most part.

I kept reminding myself to enjoy what I could while it lasted.  I am now facing what may well be a protracted decline in my professional and personal lives.  Next semester I’m teaching a reduced schedule with a strong possibility that at least one section won’t “make” (enrollment). 

There are other factors contributing to my low mood this week.  Just after Thanksgiving an administrative assistant whom I worked with for years passed away suddenly, the second death of a friend and coworker in three months.  A series of snowstorms has brought hope for an end to a multiyear drought where I live, but the cold and the absence of sunlight is wearing on me.  Things continue to break around the house but I don’t feel sufficiently motivated to fix them.  I’m sleeping a lot but don’t feel rested when I’m awake.  I’m still dealing with the myriad minor afflictions that have bothered me for more than a year.  A few weeks ago it turned out that the malaise I was feeling for a spell last July and August may have been the product of a periodontal infection the damage from which required oral surgery to repair.  (Apologies for the TMI.)

There are reasons for me to be cheerful, though.  I’ve landed a summer school assignment for next year.  I’ve had one conference paper accepted for the spring, and a decision is pending on another one for a conference in June.  Best of all, I received an invitation from out of the blue to participate in a colloquium in South Africa this summer.  (Our summer, not theirs.)  It’s a long trip to be sure, and an expensive one, but there is a good chance that it will lead to my first ever peer-reviewed journal article.  Quite the feather in my cap if I pull it off.

Then again, nothing I do seems to impress my bosses.  Teaching awards, better than average student ratings, acing my classroom teaching evaluation, active participation in academic conferences, publishing a journal article, doesn’t matter.  I draw dog sections which can never attract high enough enrollment to avoid cancellation, I’m rebuked for minor complaints from students in the wrong, and the administration brings in additional instructors who are given classes which used to be mine.

I’m not the only one.  During the semester I struck up a friendship with a new adjunct prof who, like me, came to academia in middle age.  Despite rave reviews from colleagues and students alike, she was passed over for a temporary full time position and given a reduced schedule in the spring to boot.   Needless to say when she told me about this she was quietly seething.  There was a silver lining, though.  Her thesis advisor from graduate school invited her to teach at his institution where I’m sure she’ll knock ‘em dead.

It’s nice to have choices.  Another adjunct I’ve long considered a rival confided in me a while back that he was planning to go back to school for his doctorate or to earn a K-12 credential.  Being part-time faculty was too hit-or-miss, he told me.  Yeah, it is that. 

Unfortunately I’m too old to make a go at a new career.  Opportunities for men over forty are limited.  I still have a son in school, so (voluntary) retirement is not an option.  Most importantly, remaining in academia for me is worth fighting for.  It’s the third career I’ve followed in my lifetime and, notwithstanding the barrage of complaints I have posted on this blog over the years, it’s the only one I’ve loved.  And notwithstanding my position on the lowest rung of the professional ladder, I have not received as much respect in the community as I have as a teacher and academic.  It would be very painful to walk away from that.

At least for the next couple of weeks I will be spared the possibility of further bad news since campus will shut down for the holiday break.  (I’ve never been into Christmas very much, but this year I’ve barely noticed its impossible to miss trappings.)  I didn’t plan my usual post-semester vacation in a balmy clime this year, but maybe I’ll treat myself to a few days in Vegas instead.  After all, no place on the planet is farther removed from daily reality.

And who knows?  Maybe I’ll get lucky. 



© 2015 The Unassuming Scholar

Sunday, December 6, 2015

Trauma

I’m a fan of the journalism aggregator website, Longform.  This morning I read this piece linked to the site from the Washington Post about the recovery of a wounded survivor of October’s mass shooting at Umpqua Community College in Roseburg, Oregon.

Before I go on, I should tell you a couple of things about myself.  The first, which you might know already if you’ve read anything else on this site, is that I’m a community college instructor.  For this reason I closely follow news of campus shootings silently praying that neither my students nor I ever fall victim to one.

The second thing, which I have only alluded to in passing in earlier posts, is that I am a trauma survivor.  I was impaled through the chest in a peacetime training accident while serving overseas with the military.  The injury left me permanently disabled.  I was hospitalized for two months, most of the first spent in the ICU.  It took me more than three years to fully adjust and find my “new normal” before I could begin to rebuild my life.

I don’t discuss this much.  While I suspect that the people who know me casually are aware I’m different I’m able to conceal much of the extent of my disability.  I wear long sleeved shirts year round to cover my withered right arm and few people, even family members, have seen the numerous wound and surgical scars that cover my body from my neck to my knees.  When I meet people for the first time they’re mildly surprised when I offer my left hand to shake but they don’t seem to notice much else.  I must say I’m pleased with my ability to pass as a normal, whole person most of the time.  I live alone without help, I’ve travelled the world by myself despite my disability, and I work at a job from which I derive great satisfaction.  Things could be much worse.

Which brings me to the 16 year old girl profiled in the Washington Post.  Eight weeks are a very short time to recover from the severe injuries she experienced and it is not reasonable to expect her to be her best self.  Nevertheless, the article paints a portrait of a very unappealing individual.  She is verbally abusive to everyone around her including her chronically ill mother.  She is demanding yet ungrateful.  Aside from a brief remark that she did nothing to help during the attack she seems devoid of sympathy for or even awareness of the other victims.  Her family members must explain every routine movement about the house lest they startle her unnecessarily.  It’s all about her.

I suspect she was a godawful brat well before the shooting, self-centered, narcissistic, and rude.  I strongly suspect her family insisted on treating her as exceptional throughout her young life.  To a degree it’s a characteristic of her generation.  It’s also true that illness makes most of us short tempered. 

But there are limits.  This girl has a lot going for her if she would just stop a moment and realize it.  She has the full support of her mom and brothers and the concern of her community.  I wish I had had a fraction of the support she enjoys.  My marriage collapsed during my own recovery while my mother and sisters used a power of attorney granted to manage my affairs to help themselves to my assets.  

Once home I was left unattended for long periods of time, during which I had to shift for myself.  I spent the many hours alone reliving the accident in my mind, memories which continue to surface years later.  Naturally I had my irritable moments, but for the most part I was my normal, polite self, with “please” this and “thank you” that in the face of the indifference of those entrusted with my care.  Most importantly I resolved to carry on even though it meant starting over with nothing.

My takeaway from the article was the lack of resiliency in our current crop of youth.  Over the past year or so articles in academic journals and “trade” periodicals such as The Chronicle of Higher Education have commented on counselors and administrators who warn faculty not to discuss things which might “trigger” bad memories or negative emotions in students.  I’ve received similar warnings from the institutions where I teach, as if I’m supposed to know the full personal history of each individual in my classes.  The subject I teach requires discussing controversial topics from time to time, so it’s not a matter of if but when a student will bring a complaint regardless of how carefully or circumspectly I present the material.  I am not sure which is worse, the potentially violent student or the prospect of having students like Umpqua Girl in my classroom.

The girl’s physical injuries will heal.  She can learn to cope with the emotional pain, which will dull though not disappear with the passage of time.  She has every opportunity to lead a normal life.  But from what I read, I think she will wring the shooting for all it’s worth for as long as she can.   She will mope, she will malinger, she will gradually leach the very life from those around her.  Rather than fulfill her responsibility to the dead to live a productive life to the best of her ability, the young woman profiled in the Post article shows every sign of spending her many remaining days draining the energy of those around her while producing nothing of value in return.

I am truly sorry for all those harmed in the Umpqua Community College shooting.  No one deserves such suffering.  But survivors have a choice.  They can move forward, pain be damned, or they can mire themselves along with their family and friends in the misery of a moment irrevocably past. 

It’s too bad that this young person has chosen the latter.



© 2015 The Unassuming Scholar



Saturday, December 5, 2015

Jive S**t for Rich (or at least Affluent) White Folks

A number of years ago, a wise soul left this graffito on the gate of the Esalen Institute in Big Sur: “Jive Shit for Rich White Folks.” 

I can empathize.  Too often, I find myself shaking my head at the tastes of people with too much time and money on their hands.  So, in the spirit of skewering their penchant for fads, expensive pastimes, and belief in bunk, I’ve made my own list of jive based on observations from living in a resort town populated with folks who are well-off and (mostly) white:

Self-branding

Playdates

Being a “foodie”

The Secret

Cocooning

Kombucha

REI

Helicopter parenting

Wearing tie dye, dreadlocks, and peace symbols while majoring in business and voting Republican

Loudly proclaiming one’s environmentalism while creating a larger than necessary CO2 footprint by taking ski vacations in Switzerland and making “spiritual pilgrimages” to Nepal

Probiotics

Following one’s bliss

Adventure travel

Ecotourism

Mindfulness

Life coaching

Life hacking

Radical forgiveness (Believe it or not, this is actually a thing.)

Anything advertised as “organic”

Reading anything by Joseph Campbell

Watching anything with Joseph Campbell

Tai chi

Feng shui

Gap years spent doing anything but charitable work or earning tuition money

Jungian psychology

Being an anti-vaxxer

Yoga

New Age philosophy

Artisanal products

TED Talks

I’ll probably come up with more later, but these are a good start.


© 2015 The Unassuming Scholar

 

Friday, November 27, 2015

The Miz 4.0


The World’s Greatest Blog has reemerged in its latest incarnation.

The Academic Mizery Machine is carrying on the proud tradition of its predecessors, RateYourStudents, AcademicWaterCooler, and College Misery, providing a safe space for proffies to vent their frustrations with the system.  Such a forum provides an invaluable service to those of us in the trenches as long as teaching faculty must continue to put up with bratty, entitled students and boneheaded, ass covering administrators.  It's at the top of my daily must-read list.

Long live The Miz!!!


Monday, October 26, 2015

Sylvia - XIII: Coda

At a remove of fifty years, the story of Sylvia Likens is a commingling of fact and myth. 

It’s not likely we will ever have a complete picture of Sylvia and her life before Gertrude Baniszewski.  Only a few people who knew her well are still alive, and she lived in an era before people had the technology to overzealously document every other moment of their daily lives.  Even then first-hand accounts of the weeks the Likens sisters stayed with the Baniszewskis have a RashĹŤmon-like quality.  Nevertheless what we do know is sufficient to draw the appropriate conclusions, if not about Sylvia, then those concerning human nature and the state of society.   

It’s significant that the cinematic treatment of the Sylvia Likens case was titled An American Crime.  The inflicting of violence cloaked in angry self-righteousness upon people less able to fight back is quintessentially American though few of us will admit it.  It’s our seamy underbelly, the obverse of our Mom-and-apple-pie self-conception.  It’s difficult to think of a murder whose enactment was so protracted, so over the top in its cruelty occurring in another culture.  Recall that the chain of events leading to Sylvia’s death began as simple acts of bullying which subsequently escalated.  Violence and the threat of it is an institutionalized part of American life.  From the playground to the workplace to the street the whole calculus of American society is predicated upon exploitation of the weak and vulnerable by the strong and amoral. 

But before you have violence you must have cognition, a definition of the situation on both ends of the transaction.  The aggressor’s definition, of himself and his victim, is most often implicitly and mutually accepted.  The victim does not have a definition of his or her own because understanding is a function of naming.  Self-understanding itself is a matter of framing self-concepts.  We don’t understand what we can’t name.  Anything else is mere intuition, though intuition at its best can motivate discovery. Gertrude Baniszewski and the denizens of 3850 East New York Street defined Sylvia for themselves and used that definition to justify ending a young life. 

Why Sylvia was so passive in the face of the violence visited upon her will never be known though the theory she was protecting her sister Jenny is convincing.  I think Sylvia’s family was her whole world and she would have done anything for them.  If Sylvia sacrificed herself for her physically vulnerable sister it was from a deeply ingrained sense of responsibility.  Solidarity entails, no, demands sacrifice.  Sylvia would never have broken faith with her sister or any other family member, and I don’t think that under the circumstances any sacrifice would have been too great for her. 

Having turned the question of why over and over in my mind for many years, I am no closer to understanding the savagery of Gertrude Baniszewski and her confederates save to say that every walk of life contains a small percentage of what I will call “wreckers” for lack of a better word.  These are individuals with a nihilistic need to break things.  Or people.  In more affluent walks of life their destructive behavior may take the form of white collar crime, fraud, embezzlement, confidence games, and such.  Among the poor and ignorant it invariably takes the form of violence and physical destruction.   Society tolerates this behavior to a point.  Their misconduct serves a purpose for those living more gracious lives in that it permits them to indulge in self-congratulatory self-superiority.  And when their dissoluteness leads to murder?  We shake our heads, cluck disapprovingly, and more often than not do nothing further once the guilty parties are convicted and imprisoned.     

There will always be people who will question Sylvia and Jenny’s failure to report their own abuse.  This question is absurd on its face.  Even today, with mandated reporter laws and greater public awareness of child abuse and domestic violence, comparatively few victims come forward on their own.  Sometimes it’s from fear of retaliation.  Sometimes it’s dependency on the abuser when there is no place else to go.  Then as now it isn’t until the police are involved, most often when the worst has happened and someone is either badly injured or dead that abuse comes to light.  Together with the common acceptance of corporal punishment of children in 1965 the greater credibility of adults would have made an attempt to tell on Gertrude foolhardy and an invitation to even harsher treatment.  The sisters were in an untenable situation from the start.

We will never know for certain why Gertrude and Paula fixed their hatred upon Sylvia.  Gertrude claimed not to remember many of the events leading to Sylvia’s death, not that she was ever involved of course.  Paula has never offered an explanation following her statement to the police and she will undoubtedly carry her reasons to the grave.  I can only substitute my own explanation.  Sylvia was to the Baniszewskis what Noam Chomsky would call the threat of a good example.  She was proof that hard circumstances do not necessarily create hard, heartless people.  She saw the best in others and could not conceive that she would inspire the rage which was turned upon her.  Perhaps her manner was misread, though one has the impression Sylvia was as guileless as they come.  Even so, Marie Baniszewski testified Paula hated Sylvia because she believed Sylvia thought herself better than Paula.

I find it hard to believe Sylvia ever thought she was better than anyone else, even an execrable specimen of humanity such as Paula Baniszewski.  Sylvia Likens was one of nature’s aristocrats.  Despite her poverty, her rough surroundings, she possessed a certain innate grace which was anathema to her housemates.  Each of them, particularly Gertrude and Paula, was shamed by this.  They could not live up to her gentleness, her quintessential goodness, and so they had to destroy her.  Their crime against Sylvia was a morality play in which the moral exemplar wound up dead.  They killed Sylvia not only because they could, but because they needed to.   

This last point may explain their lack of remorse.  Sylvia’s murder is unforgiveable on this basis alone though it’s hard to imagine anyone directly affected by her death would be disposed to forgive.  The injured are under no obligation to forgive, and sincere expressions of remorse are rare anyway.  People generally apologize not because they are truly sorry but rather to avoid or mitigate consequences.  For the victim, forgiveness can be an invitation for further abuse.  Would Sylvia have forgiven her tormentors?  Only those who knew her well could say.  I can certainly understand why Jenny and other Likens family members were unforgiving.  Had I been in their place I would not forgive either. 

There was an abject failure of consequences in the Likens case.  I do not support the death penalty, but I do believe Gertrude Baniszewski should never have drawn another breath as a free woman once she was led out of 3850 East New York Street in handcuffs.  The others should have served their full sentences before being released rather than the minimum they actually spent behind bars. 

Perhaps the lesson of Sylvia Likens’ death is simply that it happened.  It was an illustration of both human indifference and the godawful baseness and brutality of human nature.  The village was not there for the child, and so she perished due to an absence of community accountability.   The inaction of moral simpletons like Phyllis Vermillion exemplify the inherent dangers of turning away and telling yourself it’s none of your business.   Sylvia and Jenny needed and deserved the love and protection of the people around them.  We did not care enough to save them from the tragedy which befell them.  We only cared about them after the fact, after the damage was done. 

The private nature of the family in our society is also to blame.  Our popular ideology extolls the family, and our laws safeguard its sanctity.  Combine that with our reflexive deference to authority and the relative absence of accountability of parents and caregivers and the nuclear family is rife with potential for physical and emotional abuse.  For every “normal,” nurturing family there must be several more where dysfunction reigns.  Absent greater transparency in the family child abuse and neglect will persist as one of our greatest social ills.

The passage of a half century has not lessened the emotional impact of Sylvia Likens’ death.  Much has been done since to increase awareness of child abuse but still not enough.  The ever-evolving concept of children’s rights has included protection from its beginning.  The legal dependency of children obliges not only their parents but their communities to ensure their physical and emotional wellbeing.  Every child has a basic human right to physical integrity which precludes the barbaric practice of corporal punishment.  Domestic corporal punishment has been banned outright by nearly fifty countries, and over the past twenty-five years strides have been made internationally to protect children.  The Convention on the Rights of the Child, though signed by the United States, does not carry the status of law as it remains unratified by the U. S. Senate.  Once Somalia completes the ratification process, the U.S. will be the only member of the United Nations which is not a party to the Convention.

Old standards die hard.  Ratification of the Convention in this country has been stalled by opposition from the Religious Right which opposes family transparency and whose policy preferences are to scale back or eliminate many of the social services which protect children.  Religious conservatism does not cause child abuse and neglect but the social climate it fosters makes it easier to conceal.  And to justify: The Baniszewskis loudly proclaimed their faith and virtue even as they tortured and killed Sylvia Likens and long after their convictions for the crime. 

Awareness is the first step on a long journey.  So much more must be done.  Will we have to wait another fifty years before we have measures in place that can decisively avert the death of another Sylvia Likens?





© 2015 The Unassuming Scholar

Saturday, October 24, 2015

Sylvia - XII: Sense from Senselessness





We pay considerably more attention to the problem of child abuse and neglect today than when Sylvia Likens died in 1965. 

The crimes against Sylvia occurred in a time long before AMBER alerts, Megan’s Law, the awareness of stranger danger, and so forth.  Police and social services investigations of abuse in that era were hit or miss as we have seen when school nurse Barbara Sanders failed to follow up on allegations of Sylvia’s mistreatment.  Data collection and interagency information sharing were difficult before the advent of automation.  Young people disappeared and stayed missing with alarming frequency.  The Charley Project, a website devoted to unsolved missing persons cases, too often describes those before the 1980s with the ominous words, “Few details are available in his/her case.”  Technological advances and stronger legislation have helped us make enormous strides in identifying and intervening in instances of suspected child abuse and exploitation.  But better awareness notwithstanding, we too often learn of it after the fact when the damage is already done.   

Occasionally the abuse, or more accurately the neglect, is at the hands of well-meaning caregivers.  Anti-vaxxers are the most visible and vocal example of these, despite the junk science behind their cause.  In a similar, though more sensitive vein are parents who won’t seek medical treatment for their kids on the basis of their religious beliefs.  I’m reminded of the parents of a boy whose cancer came out of remission, refused to subject him to another round of chemo partly as a result of their religious conversion, and fled to Mexico with him to dodge a court order directing their son’s treatment. 

Curiously a figure in the Sylvia Likens case emerged years later to defend these very practices. After Marjorie Wessner left the Marion County Prosecutor’s Office she became counsel for the Christian Science church in Boston.  A child abuse prevention nonprofit’s newsletter from 1986 criticizes a speech by Wessner in which she claimed faith had cured several gravely ill children after doctors had predicted they would die and declared immunization a dangerous and ineffective practice.  But since these beliefs are a suburban, middle class soccer mom fad there are few if any sanctions against any damage they may lead to such as this year’s measles outbreak in Southern California.  By contrast efforts to prevent or mitigate familial abuse often focus disproportionately on the poor.

Child abuse and mental illness now have a higher profile partly thanks to mandated reporter laws which either didn’t exist or weren’t enforced in the 1960s.  The summer before Sylvia died the Indiana legislature enacted the state’s first mandated reporter law.  The law was sporadically enforced until it was revised in 1971 to give it more teeth.  I don’t recall much public discussion about child welfare until the middle of the 1980s.  When I was in elementary and high school there was not the bevy of social workers, counselors, learning disability specialists, child psychologists, and other student support services available to public school students today. 

When I was a social services case manager during a brief detour from academia I was struck by how much things had changed since I was a kid.  I worked in a very small town with fewer than a thousand residents.  Fourteen individuals under the age of eighteen lived on my block.  At one point nine of them were in the system for various reasons, including abuse, parents who were substance abusers, emotional or social adjustment problems at school, run-ins with the law, and so on. 

It seemed to me as if the town’s kids believed it usual to be troubled.  One morning I visited the elementary school to speak with a counselor about a client.  Taking a shortcut through the gym, a little girl who was maybe eight or nine years old noticed my county ID badge hanging from a lanyard around my neck.  She skipped up to me with a bright, expectant smile and asked sweetly, “Are you my social worker?”

I wasn’t, but the encounter made me think.  Morbidity is the new normal.  The nuclear family is the incubator; there is just a little more transparency now than in 1965.  The tendency even today is to preserve the family unless there is a clear danger to the child.  Mom smacked the kid in the grocery store parking lot?  A month of parenting classes will help her cope, at least until the next time she lashes out.  Dad’s meth head buddy who’s been crashing on the living room sofa has been taking liberties with the five year old daughter?  Send the child to counseling, that’ll patch things over.  Just don’t break up the family unit, no matter what.

Before industrialization increased individual mobility, both physical and social, extended families under one roof were the norm.  For although physical punishment of children was common, the presence of grandparents, aunts, and uncles in the household reduced stress on parents by sharing childcare responsibilities as well as discouraging more egregious forms of abuse with the presence of multiple pairs of eyes and ears in the household.  Such checks and balances made severe child abuse and domestic violence much more difficult to get away with.  Place the extended family in a community where neighbors are well acquainted with each other and you can reduce the incidence of child abuse and domestic violence even further. 

Greater accountability would have averted the Sylvia Likens tragedy.  Gertrude Baniszewski should never have been trusted with a houseplant, let alone a houseful of children.  This seemed to occur to no one.  It’s dumbfounding when you remind yourself yet again that so many people encountered the Likens sisters in the fall of 1965 and suspected nothing, nothing amiss.  There was so much at stake and seemingly no one saw.  No accountability, no consequences.  Once Sylvia was dead, the question of preventing that death was moot.  Moot, that is, except for her surviving family.

Consider the aftermath of Sylvia Likens’ death among her sisters and brothers.  Mental health problems seem to have dogged that generation of the Likens family.  Had Sylvia lived would she have dodged that bullet, particularly if she hadn’t crossed Gertrude’s path?  Her passivity in the face of Gertrude’s physical and emotional abuse is alarming.  Would she have stood up to or left an abusive boyfriend or husband?  Such stresses would adversely affect the health of an average individual let alone one who may have had a somatic propensity toward mental health disorders.

There is nothing to suggest that Lester ever experienced mental health problems, though Betty told a reporter in 1985 that since Sylvia’s death she had had difficulty holding down a job.  Sylvia’s elder brother Danny, who is believed to still be alive, is reported to have been chronically homeless throughout much of his life which is often correlated with mental illness and substance abuse.  No one, not even his relatives, seems to know his whereabouts.

Younger brother Benny is said to have been schizophrenic.  According to his grave marker Benny served in Vietnam though in what capacity we don’t know.  If he had been drafted rather than volunteered it might have been as part of Project 100,000, the Pentagon’s initiative to fill the ranks during the war under the guise of helping the underprivileged.  If he had experienced combat it could have aggravated whatever somatic propensity toward mental disorder he might have had.  Like Danny he was periodically homeless and was out of touch with his family when he passed away in 1999.  His father learned of Benny’s death when the post office returned a letter to him marked “deceased.”

I’ve written elsewhere of Jenny’s suffering though I believe it would have been much less severe or possibly nonexistent had she and Sylvia not been left with the Baniszewskis.  Among the siblings only Dianna seems to have been unscathed, in spite of having endured more tragedy in one lifetime than any individual should be expected to bear.  I think she is a remarkable lady.

Greater awareness has not precluded the possibility of more Sylvias.  Nearly two decades after the Likens case a California woman named Theresa Knorr tortured and killed two of her own teenaged daughters in 1984 and 1985.  Her first victim was elder daughter Suesan, whom she shot in a fit of anger and then kept tied up in the bathtub until she recovered.  Another argument led to Suesan being stabbed with a pair of scissors.  As with the gunshot Suesan was not afforded medical attention.  Fed up with the abuse Suesan told her mother she wanted to leave home.  Theresa agreed but only after the bullet lodged in Suesan was removed.  Suesan agreed but contracted blood poisoning following Theresa’s removal of the bullet with a hobby knife.  After her condition became worse Suesan was taken by her mother and brother to a remote mountain location about 100 miles from home, and left by the roadside after being set afire while still alive.   Law enforcement was initially unable to identify the body.

Suesan & Sheila
Less than a year later Theresa murdered her younger daughter, Sheila Sanders, after she became convinced Sheila, who had been forced into prostitution by Theresa, was pregnant and had contracted an STD which Theresa claimed she had gotten from a shared toilet seat.  Sheila died of dehydration after being tied up and confined to a closet until she confessed to what Theresa had accused her of.  Even after Sheila “confessed,” she was kept locked up a few more days until her mother finally discovered her dead.  When the odor of decomposition became noticeable, Sheila’s body was placed in a cardboard box, driven to a location near where her sister had been dumped, and set on fire.  As with Suesan, law enforcement was not at first able to make an identification.

Theresa, fearing detection, took her remaining children and went on the run after attempting to burn down their apartment to destroy any physical evidence.  Terry, the youngest of Theresa’s daughters, fearing with good reason she would be the next to die, ran away from home using Sheila’s ID to pass as an adult.  Terry attempted to report the murders to police in Salt Lake City after several years had passed but was not believed.  A therapist Terry was seeing also thought she was making it up.  (Strangely, Theresa lived nearby at the time though neither mother nor daughter was aware of this.)  Frustrated with the official inaction at home Terry contacted the authorities where her sisters were dumped.  Her story’s details matched those of their Jane Does. 

Theresa was charged with and convicted of first-degree murder and sentenced to life imprisonment.  For their involvement, one of her sons was sentenced to probation and counseling while the other received three years imprisonment.  The question of why hangs in the air, as it always does in such cases.  Terry believed her mother saw her adolescent daughters as sexual competition, an eerie parallel with the Likens murder.  Psychologists and criminal profilers familiar with Theresa Knorr tend to offer this explanation as well.
 
Theresa Knorr
Terry Knorr Walker remained in Utah for a time, later residing in Missouri until her death in 2011 at the age of 41.  Her mother is still alive and well.

The murder of the Knorr girls resonates with me for different reasons than Sylvia’s.   It is a matter of proximity both in time and in place.  The case occurred in a city near where I grew up.  Suesan and Sheila were both left a few minutes’ drive from my present home.  More importantly, Suesan and I were the same age.  This was a girl I could have gone to high school with.  Likewise with Sheila.  Terry was a few years younger than I, but she was close enough in age to where I could still relate to her personally.  (My thoughts on Terry are much like mine on Jenny Likens.  I see them both as hapless figures whom the world should have treated more compassionately.)  Much like Gertrude Baniszewski, Theresa Knorr is to me a somewhat more malevolent version of my own mother whom I believe would have been capable of the same animalistic behavior under the right circumstances.   I cannot dwell much on the Knorr murders.  Too close to home in so many ways.

I try to reassure myself that improvements in awareness and detection have greatly lessened the possibility of another Sylvia Likens tragedy.  Child Protective Services may be overloaded with cases and follow through may suffer at times, but they nevertheless represent a line of defense.  But I also know that kids fall through the net sometimes, as in the 2009 death of sixteen year old Jeannette Marie Maples in Oregon.  Jeanette had spent much of her early childhood in the foster care system due to her mother’s drug use before being returned to her mother at age seven. 

Jeannette Maples
Jeannette was a good student but found it hard to fit in because her mother would send her to school in worn and dirty clothing.  Jeannette’s teachers had noticed she had lost a considerable amount of weight a year earlier and made a report to CPS.  The girl’s mother, Angela McAnulty, assured the investigators everything was fine and accused her daughter of lying about being starved.  Angela thereafter opted to “homeschool” her daughter.  Subsequent calls to CPS by Jeannette’s grandmother were not looked into.  

Angela and her husband, Richard, ramped up their campaign of abuse until Jeannette could bear no more.  Paramedics found her lying in the living room, topless and with wet hair.  Resuscitated, she later died at the hospital.  The coroner noted Jeannette was badly bruised and her body was covered with scars and open sores.  One wound had exposed her femur.  Her front teeth were broken out.  She was also severely dehydrated.  Angela claimed Jeannette had fallen earlier but had seemed fine at first until she suddenly stopped breathing.  Officials said the girl had died from intentional malnutrition and torture. 

Police investigation of the house turned up blood spatter in Jeannette’s bedroom.  Family members admitted Angela tried to clean the mess before calling for help.  Caught in a chain of lies Angela finally admitted to detectives she abused her daughter, remarking that she should have taken up smoking instead of taking her frustrations out on Jeannette.  At trial witness testimony revealed Jeannette would drink from the toilet or the dog’s water bowl to cope with her thirst, that she was forced to sleep on the floor on a sheet of cardboard so her blood would not stain the carpet, that she was often tied up at night, that Angela and Richard would beat her face with shoes, and that the family would feed Jeannette dog feces.  Richard McAnulty received a life sentence without the possibility of parole.  Angela McAnulty was sentenced to death.  She is currently the only woman on Oregon’s death row and only the second in the state’s history to draw a death sentence.

Angela McAnulty
In another egregious case of protracted abuse leading to death, an Australian girl named Louise O’Brien died in October 2008 under circumstances unnervingly similar to those of Sylvia Likens.  Louise was fifteen when her mother Kathy McDonald sent her to stay with Patricia Goddard, a family friend, in 2005.  Kathy planned to move to the same town as Goddard and wanting to avoid having Louise change schools midyear sent her on ahead.  Kathy made routine payments to Goddard for Louise’s maintenance.

Louise O'Brien
Kathy made frequent visits to Goddard and Louise, as had Lester and Betty Likens with their daughters during their stay at the Baniszewskis.   Nothing struck Kathy amiss during any of these visits.  They continued until one day when a strangely hostile Patricia Goddard told Kathy that Louise no longer wanted to see her mother.  Louise appeared suddenly, however, sporting a black eye.  Goddard angrily shooed Louise away and shut the door in Kathy’s face.  Kathy never saw her daughter alive again.

Kathy complained to the authorities, who told her there was nothing to be done since Louise was old enough to make her own decisions.  Kathy’s pleas to Goddard were ignored.  Finally, she was told Louise had run off to Melbourne with a boyfriend.   Louise’s whereabouts were unknown until March 2011when police found her remains in a wheelie bin buried in Goddard’s backyard.

During the investigation police learned that Louise had been a virtual slave in the Goddard household, cooking for Goddard and her daughter and keeping house.  Louise was subjected to frequent beatings to keep her in line.  Like Sylvia, Louise’s food intake was severely restricted.  Like Sylvia, Louise was sometimes forced to eat disgusting things such as the scabs from her wounds.  On one occasion reminiscent of the hot dog episode at the Baniszewski’s house Goddard put so much hot sauce on Louise’s food it made her vomit.  Goddard would also burn Louise as punishment.  On her infrequent sorties into the neighborhood people noticed the sores and bruises visible on Louise.  Sometimes she would go from house to house begging for food.  No one is known to have contacted the police or social services about her, though.

Louise died in a similar manner as Sylvia.  Louise had aroused Goddard’s anger in some way.  Depending on which theory you prefer Goddard either threw a claw hammer at Louise accidentally striking her in the head or she deliberately bludgeoned Louise to death with it.  Either way Louise O’Brien died from the same cause as Sylvia Likens, a subdural hematoma.  Sylvia died slowly in a basement.  Louise died slowly, shut up in a trailer behind the Goddard house.

Unlike Gertrude Baniszewski, Patricia Goddard did not panic at the death of her charge.  Consulting her daughter Tracey, who was travelling with a carnival, Goddard decided to stuff Louise’s body in a plastic trash bin and bury it in the back yard.  Enlisting the help of an 18-year-old neighbor boy, she was able to conceal the evidence without anyone the wiser until the police were finally tipped three years later.

Patricia Goddard got off even more lightly than Gertrude, at least legally, though being much older than Gertrude at the time of her conviction she never drew a free breath again.  Goddard pled guilty to manslaughter and died behind bars a year or so later.

Patricia Goddard
There were many similarities between Sylvia and Louise.  Both were sweet natured and unassertive in the face of adult authority.  People in the neighborhood suspected abuse in each case but did nothing.  Both Gertrude and Patricia Goddard were able to cover up the seeming absence of their young housemates with stories no one bothered to verify.  The ensuing trials of both women were media circuses.  And once justice, so called, was done little more was.  Public attention moved on to the next spectacle.

Something dark lurks in the depths of the human soul.   Pushed in the right (wrong?) direction any of us are capable of anything.  We all have destructive impulses.  We’re left to ponder why relatively few of us act upon them and are shocked when we recognize those who do.  We can rarely discern what compels them.  Gertrude Baniszewski’s actions beggar comprehension.  It is all anyone can do to find even a scintilla of sense in them. 




© 2015 The Unassuming Scholar

Thursday, October 22, 2015

Sylvia - XI: A Way to Tell a Story

What seems madness to a detached observer can have a strange banality to those living within it. 

Consider the subjective experiences of those residing at 3850 East New York Street in the autumn of 1965.  Homework, afterschool jobs, and the casual, almost offhanded tormenting of a housemate.  Everyone sitting down for supper after getting their licks in on Sylvia.  The neighborhood kids casually hanging around the living room after school while Sylvia is bullied into stripping in front of them and violating herself with an empty soda bottle.  Mrs. Lepper dropping by to visit Gertrude accompanied by Randy, who is “dressed as a girl,” commiserating with Gertie over the bad rash covering her face.  Gertie’s arrest for defrauding a paper boy.  The supposed burglary attempt by the neighbor man in the other unit of the Baniszewski double.  Marie and Jenny raking leaves to earn pocket money while Sylvia slowly expires in the basement.  The unadorned transcripts of the witnesses’ testimony leaves the first time reader a trifle disoriented, as if we have pitched forward and fallen through the looking glass into a world of nonchalant horror.  How could any of this have seemed normal to anyone of sound mind?



There are two morals to be learned from Sylvia Likens’ death.  One is that the nuclear family, so valorized in our culture, can be a cloak for exploitation, abuse, and neglect.  Another is that an absence of a strong community can put individual members at risk of being victimized.

The mob which tortured and killed Sylvia exemplify an extreme twist on in-group morality.  Social cohesion depends upon distinguishing insiders from outsiders and who is allowed in the group.  There is a survival imperative in this dynamic dating back to pre-civilization.  But it also gives a psychological boost to those doing the excluding.  You see, it’s fun to exclude others.  It heightens your own sense of superiority.  When Sylvia arrived in Gertrude Baniszewski’s home she presented a dual threat to Gertrude.  First, she was an extra mouth to feed in an already crowded house.  Secondly, her youth and attractiveness made her implicit competition for an aging woman who liked to flirt with the neighborhood boys.  Gertrude would neutralize Sylvia’s perceived threat by universalizing it to include her family, followed by giving license to her children and the other kids hanging about the house to mistreat Sylvia.  

Prosecutor Leroy New told the jury in his summation that the first obligation of the defendants had been to leave Sylvia Likens alone.  Such a simple charge, to refrain from doing something.   And yet they could not.  The Baniszewskis had a poor sense of boundaries.  Because Gertrude and her children did not respect themselves, they could not respect others.  Destroying Sylvia was an expression of their nihilistic worldview.  Her prettiness and sweet disposition were at odds with the ugliness of their daily reality and they resented her for it.  Despite their shared indigence, her life held promise while theirs did not. 

Culpability lies with each of the Baniszewski children, except for baby Denny and perhaps little Jimmy. Paula and Johnny were responsible for the worst of the punishment.  Stephanie’s involvement was minimized at trial so her testimony would win convictions; she was probably as responsible for Sylvia’s death as the other two siblings.  The younger ones played their own part in their mother’s plan.  Marie brought the urine for Sylvia to drink.  Shirley heated the sewing needle Ricky Hobbs used to tattoo Sylvia. 

Perhaps Stephanie was right when she told reporters if her mother and siblings hadn’t killed Sylvia they would have eventually turned on her instead.  I can see this.  Stephanie and I each occupied similar positions in our respective families.  (Note well: This is the only time I will ever compare myself to any Baniszewski.)  Like Stephanie, I was the smart kid in a socially marginal family.  My functionally illiterate and emotionally unstable mother was, needless to say, unsympathetic to my scholastic aspirations.  I was also frequently scapegoated by her for things I either did not do or which were beyond my control.  I got out as soon as I could and got myself as far away from her as I could.

I think the “crab mentality” was as prevalent in the Baniszewski family as it was in mine.  Any attempt to climb out of the bucket would be met by being seized and dragged back down by the other crabs.  I don’t admire Stephanie’s selling out her mother, sister, and brother to escape, particularly since she was undoubtedly as guilty as they, but I understand it. 

In the half century since Sylvia’s murder the Baniszewskis perfected the art of hiding in plain sight.  John, Sr., his name tarnished by the actions of his ex-wife and children, changed it to Blake.  His younger children also adopted the new name. 

Once released from prison, Paula left Indiana for Iowa after marrying.  Gertrude joined her there after she was paroled.  Paula managed to keep a low profile until 2012 when her identity and role in the Likens murder was discovered.  Someone who knew of the crime stumbled across Paula’s Facebook page.  She was fired from her position as a high school classroom aide in the wake of public outrage. 

Gertrude never did fully admit to her role in Sylvia’s death and persisted with her claim she was unaware of her children’s actions.  At her 1985 parole hearing she gave that peculiar expression of regret so common in our culture, the non-apology apology.  Gertrude admitted responsibility for the death of “that girl,” mostly avoiding mention of Sylvia’s name.  Apparently that was sufficient for the parole board, which voted 3-2 to let her go.

Johnny was the only participant in Sylvia’s murder who ever expressed any remorse after being “born again,” though his sincerity is questionable given how the Baniszewskis wore their religion on their sleeve.  (In a 1998 interview Johnny remarked that Sylvia died because “she was in the wrong place at the wrong time,” as if Sylvia was the victim of some random act of God.)  After attending Baptist Bible College in Missouri, Jerry Falwell’s alma mater, Johnny worked as a lay minister and sold real estate.  He died in 2005. 

Little is publicly known of Marie, Shirley, and Jimmy after the trial.

Dennis Wright, Jr., an infant at the time of the murder, was placed in foster care and eventually adopted.  While his adoptive family was harsh towards him growing up, Denny by all accounts did his very best to live a good life.  He died in 2012 leaving behind a wife and children. 

Stephanie, in contrast with her other siblings, has been quite visible particularly on social media.  Unlike for Paula this hasn’t had any meaningful repercussions for her.  Several years ago Stephanie, reportedly a retired schoolteacher living in Florida, posted a story about Sylvia to her MySpace page titled “Silly and Me.”  The story has made the rounds of the Sylvia tribute sites to predictable outrage.

Although she did not testify to this at trial Stephanie claimed she actually first met Sylvia when they attended kindergarten together in the 1950s.  They became fast friends even though Sylvia was a year and a half older than Stephanie.  The two became so close they had pet names for each other; Sylvia was “Silly” and Stephanie was “Stessy” (because little Sylvia said her name with a lisp).  They would play house together after school with a couple of neighborhood boys.  Sylvia would hold and comfort Stephanie after her epileptic fits even though the other kids made fun of Stephanie over them.  They remained close until Sylvia moved away at the end of the year.

Let’s pause for a moment before I go on.  I don’t know if Stephanie appreciates the irony of a story in which she, one of the gang that bullied and tortured Sylvia Likens to death, claims Sylvia comforted her after she was bullied when they were little girls. 

Of course, Stephanie would say that this is her point: “I loved Sylvia.  I couldn’t possibly have hurt her.”  (Which creepily sounds an awful lot like the alibis offered up by men who kill their wives and girlfriends.)   The Silly n’ Stessy story is offensive because it is a brazen attempt at whitewashing Stephanie’s own culpability by diverting attention from it.  Stephanie admitted to participating in the abuse on the stand, although what she admitted to in exchange for going free had to have been a watered-down version of what she actually did.   

So, why didn’t she mention their childhood friendship earlier?  Stephanie explained that trial evidence is not intended to elicit irrelevant information, which is true enough.  Perhaps Leroy New was aware of the alleged prior relationship and opted to leave it out.  If it was omitted it wouldn’t be subject to cross-examination by the defense and so it did not come out at the time.  But why are we learning about this nearly fifty years after the trial?  Stephanie claims she had never followed the coverage of the Likens case after the first trial ended until just a few years ago.  She said she was shocked by how she was depicted in the various news articles and books about the murder and simply wanted to defend herself. 

Apparently there are folks who question or downplay the Baniszewskis’ guilt, and Stephanie has a coterie of online supporters.  Stephanie has also had exchanges with those who feel she should have been tried and convicted with the rest of the defendants.  Replying to the moderator of a Sylvia memorial website who challenged her story, Stephanie asserted that she had been “exonerated” back in 1966 and had nothing to explain or justify.  Of course having the charges against you dropped in exchange for your testimony is hardly exoneration.  It is because so much of the prosecution’s case against Gertrude and the others depended on Jenny Likens’ testimony and another material witness was needed from the Baniszewski household that Stephanie got the deal she did.  No matter the official denials a deal by any other name is still a deal.

But wait, there’s more.  In the aforementioned exchange between Stephanie and the moderator, Stephanie accused her of distracting attention from present day social problems.  Stephanie wrote that if people really wanted to honor Sylvia’s memory they should help vulnerable youth such as teenage prostitutes.  That got a reaction.  Most of the online commentary over that remark found it disturbingly redolent of the “I’m a prostitute and proud of it!” tattoo Sylvia’s murderers burned into her belly.  It would be much more appropriate to urge people to work on behalf of abused children and domestic violence victims, would it not?  But Stephanie simply stuck by her words and did not take them back.

Who knows whether the Silly n’ Stessy story is true.  Its credibility is in the eye of the beholder but please consider the source.  I find Stephanie the scariest of the Baniszewskis.  The others were as dumb as dirt and meaner than pit bulls.  Easy enough to recognize.  Stephanie is positively reptilian.  She combines the rotten moral core of the rest of her family with an articulate sociopathic charm.  But she’s a great storyteller, I’ll give her that. 

Stephanie also has a well-honed sense of drama noticeable during the Likens girls’ stay and beyond, as well as sharing Gertrude’s hypochondria.   Stephanie was frequently home sick from school during the sisters’ stay (and yet now claims ignorance of what was happening with Sylvia).  There are Stephanie’s supposed epileptic fits…or fainting spells, take your pick.   They always seemed to occur during the most tension laden moments in the Baniszewski house.   Gertrude wasn’t above leveraging her daughter’s health woes for attention’s sake, telling Rev. Roy Julian during one visit that she feared Stephanie had a brain tumor.  Asked about her state of health during the trial Stephanie complained of high blood pressure.  A brain tumor and high blood pressure?   Makes you wonder how she lived as long as she has.

There’s something else you should know about Stephanie—she’s sensitive.  John Dean notes several episodes in House of Evil in which Stephanie breaks down in tears over all the family discord.  Stephanie socked Sylvia in the jaw for spreading rumors, but she cried afterward.  She slapped Sylvia after the first Pepsi bottle incident, but she cried afterward.  She cried when she discovered Sylvia was dead, never mind her role in bringing about that death.  At every other critical juncture in the story we have Stephanie turning on the waterworks.  Almost at will…

I suppose what I (and quite a few other people) find most offensive is Stephanie’s repeated proclamations of faith and how she was “saved” and is therefore forgiven.  I won’t delve into the theology of fundamentalist Protestantism, but I find it difficult to understand how so many of its followers can use it to justify judging others while claiming to have their worst deeds washed clean because of it.  Some of the angriest, most vindictive people I have ever known were "saved," "born again" Christians.

But this can't be true in every case.  I am an atheist but I believe if your religious faith helps you become a better person then it is a good thing.  Sylvia was raised with similar beliefs and they surely helped shape her into the fine young person she was and would have been.  It’s when the same religion is used to justify hatred, bigotry, and abuse, or when people hide behind it to cover their misdeeds that I take exception.  Stephanie is not remorseful.  Accordingly, she should not be forgiven.  Not by God, not by man. 

Stephanie’s public profile has had me musing over the legal consequences she escaped in 1966.  The state had initially sought a first-degree murder conviction and the death penalty for all the principal defendants including Stephanie.  But consider: The Marion County Prosecutor’s Office and Stephanie both denied that the charges against her were to be dropped in exchange for her testimony.  It would follow, then, that there is no enforceable written agreement binding on the state.  There is no statute of limitations on first-degree murder, but being that only Gertrude was convicted of this charge it would make the possibility of a new indictment on this charge remote.  (Also, if indicted for first-degree murder Stephanie would not be eligible for the death penalty since she was a juvenile at the time of the crime per the U.S. Supreme Court’s holding in Roper v. Simmons.

That leaves the possibility of a new indictment on charges of voluntary manslaughter, assuming that the fact a jury was empaneled before her severance from the other defendants in 1966 doesn’t invoke double jeopardy.  But let’s say double jeopardy doesn’t apply.  There is another matter to consider.  Normally Indiana’s statute of limitations for this offense is five years, which means under ordinary circumstances Stephanie would have been out of the woods by 1970. 

However Indiana law apparently allows certain situations where the circumstances of the case merit no time limit on prosecution.  A particularly grotesque torture-murder of a child would certainly qualify, no?  Even if Stephanie was only sentenced to time served for her stint in jail before and during the ’66 trial at least she would be assessed her share of responsibility in Sylvia Likens’ death.  (A conviction would result in Stephanie losing her teaching credential, though since she is retired it probably would be a moot consequence.  But since she resides in Florida, a felony record would also lead to her losing certain civil rights such as the right to vote.  Icing on the cake.)

Ah, but the trial’s the thing.  Absent a guilty plea we would need a trial.  The Sixth Amendment affords the accused the right to confront her accusers.  The principal material witness, Jenny Likens, passed away years ago.  Johnny Blake, Coy Hubbard, and Ricky Hobbs are no longer alive.  The detectives who investigated the crime are long since deceased.  The coroners Drs. Kebel and Ellis have both shuffled off this mortal coil.  So many other witnesses, among them Lester and Betty Likens, Randy Lepper, Anna Siscoe, Mike Monroe, Darlene McGuire, and the Rev. Roy Julian are no longer here to speak.  Just as importantly it is probable that save for the crime scene and autopsy photos any evidence collected was destroyed or lost long ago.  So, we are left with a tantalizing possibility forever beyond our reach.  Stephanie will go to her grave having gotten away with it.

I’m not sure which is worse, denial of responsibility or a blatant lack of remorse.  When asked about his relationship with Sylvia, Ricky Hobbs shrugged and said he didn’t know her very well.  Hobbs showed the same nonchalance when he testified at Gertrude’s 1971 retrial a few years after he had finished his own prison sentence.  Terminally ill with cancer and recovering from surgery, Ricky was a trifle irritable on the stand.  Questioned about his responsibility for the “I’m a prostitute” tattoo Ricky answered, “What difference does it make now?”  Quite a lot, actually.

Coy Hubbard, who probably struck the head blow that led to Sylvia’s death, remained in Indianapolis after he was released from prison.  Went back inside for a while for armed robbery.  Accused of the murder of two men in the late 1970s but never convicted.  Didn’t even change his name like the Baniszewskis.  Had the unmitigated gall to name his son after himself.  Complained bitterly when he was let go from his mechanic’s job after An American Crime came out.  Died at age 57.  No loss to the world.

Some of the surviving supporting players in Sylvia’s murder resurface periodically, bearing tales.  After Jenny died an article ostensibly about her appeared in The Weekly View, an Indianapolis community paper.  The article was actually about Judy Duke, one of the neighborhood kid-mob who tormented Sylvia. 

The article claimed Judy’s only involvement with the case was her friendship with Jenny, a relationship no one had heard of until then.  Judy said she protected the disabled Jenny from bullies at school.  The first time she noticed Sylvia at the Baniszewski home was at a birthday party.  Sylvia was supposedly confined to the basement by this point.  In Judy’s telling, Sylvia (or, “the naked girl” as Judy insisted on referring to her) came upstairs to the kitchen and grabbed a slice of cake from Judy’s plate and stuffed it in her mouth.  In retaliation Gertrude pushed Sylvia back down the basement stairs.  Judy saw “the naked girl” two more times and said she was disturbed by the abuse.

How strange.  It’s like listening to Germans who lived through the 1930s and 40s.  None of them supported the Nazis or bore any ill will against Jews.  Not a one.  Judy’s self-serving denial of her role in Sylvia’s death makes my skin crawl, as does her repeated failure to refer to Sylvia by name.  Unsurprisingly, Judy described herself as a born-again Christian.  The weeks she spent in jail after Sylvia’s death were in Judy’s memory an effort on the prosecution’s part to protect a witness.  (Judy was initially charged with injury to person.  That’s why she was in jail.  This reporter was awfully credulous.  He amusingly described Judy as a “precocious 12 year old” in 1965.  John Dean, on the other hand, described her as having a “lagging IQ.”) 

Toward the article end Judy was asked about the fate of her good friend Jenny Likens.  Judy didn’t know.  She thought Jenny had been adopted by one of the trial attorneys or something like that. 

Or something like that.  For each of the participants in Sylvia’s murder Sylvia and Jenny seem little more than furniture in their self-interested accounts.  I don’t understand why Judy agreed to an interview.  Most of the others, save for Johnny, never spoke publicly of what happened in the Baniszewski home in the fall of 1965.  Perhaps the only positive thing I can say about Paula is that at least at some point her dim intellect grasped she had actually done something wrong and thereafter opted to keep her damn piehole shut.  

It is very difficult to think of the Baniszewskis as being any kind of family in the proper sense.  I think back to the anonymous doctor’s disdainful comment to John Dean that the Likens were “trash.”  No, they were just poor.  Lester and Betty worked hard to keep the family afloat.  They were generally law abiding people who loved their children.  They did not flout community mores. 

By contrast the Baniszewskis conducted themselves like animals.  John, Sr. was a thug with a lawman’s badge and a deadbeat dad to boot.  Gertrude was a wheezing hag with an unsavory taste for young boys.  Paula was a tramp and a bully.  It wasn’t poverty that made the Baniszewskis trash; it was their lack of character and their foul behavior.  The poverty defense, as Leroy New aptly stated, does not wash.  As with us all there were choices for them to make and it is self-evident the Baniszewskis chose poorly every time. 

In the end the Baniszewski children and their friends were Gertrude’s willing accomplices.  And in the end Sylvia’s torture and murder laid bare a singular irony:  Gertrude failed at the very thing she relied upon as the bedrock of her identity, motherhood.   



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